大家好,我是姜岩的姐姐

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原发在天涯上,但是鉴于天涯的删帖速度,转载到这里。
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匆匆注册了这个ID上来和大家说几句话,我是姜岩的姐姐。

首先感谢大家对我妹妹的哀悼和祝福,谢谢你们对我们全家的关心!

不知道是哪位朋友把我妹妹的博客转到了天涯上来,姜岩是我最爱的妹妹,她把婚姻和爱情看做生活的全部,在我最后陪护她的日子里,她对我说,她当初和王菲 结婚的时候就说过,要么不结婚,结婚就是一辈子。我知道这样的事情是一个悲剧,很多人对此都只会是一声叹息,而且肯定还会有反对的意见,很多人在同情之余 会表示不理解。

我的父母都70多岁了,身体非常不好,父亲是高血压,脑梗,母亲前一段时间刚做过心脏支架手术,他们听到这个噩耗后非常悲痛,而他们最悲伤的是现在女儿的后事还没有着落,姜岩的丈夫王菲到现在还没有露面,一句道歉的话都没有。

我们姐妹感情很深,我很伤心她居然在自杀前一点都不告诉我,后来我知道了,其实她是想这个人是她自己选的,所以后果应当由她自己来承担。因为她是个完美 主义者,她对这段感情投入得太深,也付出得太多了。但也正因为如此,当她所要求的忠诚的感情面对的是背叛时,她的信仰被彻底粉碎,现在我们这个社会拜金主 义和小三盛行,都让她觉得累了,想休息了(她的经历其实是个很长的故事)。就让我们尊重她的选择,毕竟死者为大。

其实,我这样急着上来是想和大家说:虽然我理解我妹妹所做的一切,但毕竟生命是宝贵的,无论如何都不要轻易放弃,也请有些小弟弟小妹妹不要步她的后尘。你们看,天气很晴朗(这是我妹妹走前最爱说的一句话)。

我母亲今天下午心脏病发作,现在医院急救室,我儿子已经连续发烧5天,医生说可能是支原体肺炎,所以对于所有关心我们的网友和在我空间里留言的朋友,在这里一并谢了,原谅我没有时间一一回复你们。

最后,我再说一次:请热爱生命!

1,179 Replies to “大家好,我是姜岩的姐姐”

  1. 还记得10几年前看到此事件,心里的震撼,悲伤,失落,极大的影响了我的心情,好久的时间里都不能平复心情……
    今天又看到关于小姐姐的文章出现在视野里,不由得想到这个能够纪念她的地方留个言。
    小姐姐走了,那是因为心里的悲伤已经无法化开,心里的痛苦已经无法释怀,但是不管怎么样,活着的我们希望她能够在另一个世界里过得温暖,安详。也希望她的家人,爱她的朋友们能够重新开启希望,拥抱阳光,对于那些低劣品性的人渣,自有惩罚他们的方式,无论时间,只分早晚。

    我来这里也是想和小姐姐说声,安息,如果天堂有知,此刻我会想给你一个大大的拥抱,让你感受到爱你的我们想送给你的温暖。

    看到很多人的评论不一,而我一直想说,你是我敬佩的女子,不爱了,就彻底放开,不用委屈自己,也不要在意别人的想法,做你自己,没有体会过你的痛苦的人,没有资格指责你,今天,又一次心痛的翻起了之前关于你的一些文章,对于你当时的心境来说,离开或许是最好的救赎……

    而我,对你的只有满满的心疼,想想,眼泪此刻已经泪流满面,心中是化不开的悲伤,那时的你哟,如何能逃开这种撕裂的悲伤…
    你,为我们树立了一个标杆,爱的浓烈,爱的纯粹,爱的干净而又独立,既然不值得,就决绝舍弃,我爱你独立的个性,愿你在天堂的日子宁静,安详,愿乘风而去的你,美丽,自由,自在翱翔你想飞的方向。
    J家大姐姐,Z家哥哥,也希望你们能够坚强,活的幸福就是对小姐姐最深的爱,不知道你们能否看到这封信,但是还是想说几句,鼓励你们的话,加油!祝福你们都过得再幸福一点,小姐姐也会在天堂祝福你们的。
    感谢有你们……感恩有你们…
    还想送给你们一个拥抱……

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